matmatson asked: I think noone can give you an answer to your question. You have to find out yourself what makes you happy. Helping people, Have a child, traveling or whatever. You have to find it out. I do ask myself sometimes, too. But for what? Asking yourself will not help. Just do something and try out. Sitting nad watching TV will not bring you to your answer. Just do something different.
Just do it…that seems reasonable. But don´t you know also the feeling of being chained up? Well, I do not want you to get the feeling I am all messed up….I just have so many thoughts going on at the moment. may be it is this 30 coming on with fast paces and people finding their ways of life (like marrying, building a house, thinking about children, settling down…) and I am just not sure where I want to go. But like you said, just trying might be the right answer ( also I would not recommend just “trying” to have a child- that does not seem to be something you can quit having…)…
